Wellness

Weight Gain. Mood Swings. Sleepless Nights. Oh My!

8/12/2025

If you’re a woman over 40—especially with a family history of cancer or early signs of metabolic stress—these symptoms aren’t just “part of aging.” They’re your body’s way of saying: something is off.

What’s often overlooked is that hormonal health and metabolic health are inseparable. Hormones help regulate how your body uses and stores energy, while your metabolic state influences how well your hormones are produced, activated, and cleared. When one is out of balance, the other quickly follows.

That’s why weight gain, mood swings, fatigue, and disrupted sleep so often show up together in midlife. They’re not random or unrelated—they’re signs that your body’s communication systems are struggling.

At Intuitas Integrative Wellness, I believe aging should not mean losing vitality, strength, or clarity. You can age with grace, mobility, and resilience—but it takes awareness, intention, and the right actions to restore balance to your hormones and your metabolism at the same time.

The Terrain-Based Approach to Hormone Harmony

When I work with women, I never look at symptoms in isolation. Instead, I look at the entire internal ecosystem—your genes, nutrients, detox pathways, gut health, stress patterns, and metabolic rhythms.

I call this your terrain—the environment your hormones live in. When that environment is supported, hormones can do their jobs effectively. When it’s not, imbalance follows.

Why Hormones Matter More After 40

As you enter your 40s, hormonal fluctuations become more noticeable and more sensitive to the state of your terrain.
Hormones are messenger molecules that regulate metabolism, sleep, energy, hunger, detoxification, immune health, and much more. The body has over 50 hormones, but here are a few that most often drive changes for women in midlife:

  • Estrogen & Progesterone – Imbalance (often called estrogen dominance) can cause weight gain, irritability, mood swings, breast tenderness, and stubborn belly fat.
  • Thyroid Hormones – A slowdown affects every cell in your body, lowering energy and metabolism.
  • Cortisol – Chronic stress keeps this hormone high, disrupting sleep, triggering cravings, and storing fat around the waist.
  • Insulin – Elevated levels over time can lead to insulin resistance, weight gain, inflammation, and higher cancer risk.
  • Leptin & Ghrelin – These hunger and fullness hormones can get “out of sync,” leading to constant cravings and overeating. A 2023 study in Frontiers in Endocrinology shows how leptin and ghrelin imbalances in particular are linked to midlife metabolic disorders.

These are just part of the picture—other hormones like melatonin, DHEA, growth hormone, and oxytocin also play important roles.

The Terrain Connection

Hormones don’t work alone—they are part of an intricate network that depends on the health of your body’s core systems. If these systems are sluggish or overloaded, hormone signals can become distorted, delayed, or ignored.

Liver and Detox Pathways

Your liver is like the body’s hormone recycling plant. It processes and packages old or excess hormones (like estrogen) so they can be excreted safely. If your liver is overworked—by processed foods, alcohol, environmental toxins, or stress—hormone byproducts can build up and recirculate. This can worsen symptoms like PMS, bloating, breast tenderness, and weight gain.

Gut Microbiome

Your gut bacteria play a major role in hormone regulation. Certain microbes help metabolize estrogen and keep it moving out of the body. When the microbiome is imbalanced—due to antibiotics, low-fiber diets, or high sugar intake—estrogen may be reabsorbed instead of eliminated, contributing to estrogen dominance and inflammation.

Nervous System

Stress hormones like cortisol are controlled by your hypothalamus and pituitary gland in the brain. Chronic stress can keep your nervous system in “fight or flight” mode, leading to consistently high cortisol. Over time, this disrupts progesterone, thyroid hormones, and even insulin balance—making it harder to sleep, maintain energy, or lose weight.

Lymphatic System

Your lymphatic system is the body’s drainage network, helping remove waste products and support immune health. A sluggish lymph system can contribute to fluid retention, puffiness, and slowed detoxification of hormone metabolites. Gentle movement, hydration, and deep breathing all help keep it flowing.

Mitochondria and Cellular Energy

Every hormone signal depends on healthy, energy-producing cells to respond. Mitochondria—the “power plants” inside your cells—are essential for this communication. If they’re damaged by inflammation, toxins, or nutrient deficiencies, your cells may not respond properly to hormones, leaving you tired, foggy, and metabolically sluggish.

When these systems are functioning well, hormones can communicate clearly, do their jobs, and adjust gracefully to the changes that naturally happen after 40. When they’re not, even small imbalances can create a ripple effect of symptoms throughout your body.

Nutrition That Supports Hormone Health

My philosophy begins with food as medicine. Before supplements, I focus on your plate as the primary source of the nutrients your hormones and metabolism need to thrive.

The Foundations: Fats, Protein, and Fiber

  • Healthy fats give your body the building blocks for hormones and help reduce inflammation. Examples: avocado, nuts, seeds, olive oil, and fatty fish.
  • Protein maintains muscle mass (key for metabolism) and stabilizes blood sugar. Examples: eggs, poultry, fish, legumes, grass-fed meats.
  • Fiber supports digestion, balances blood sugar, and helps your body eliminate old hormones. Examples: vegetables, berries, legumes, flax, chia seeds.

Targeted Foods for Hormone Health

  • Cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, Brussels sprouts, kale, cauliflower) help your liver safely break down and clear excess estrogen.
  • Omega-3 fatty acids (wild salmon, sardines, flaxseeds, chia seeds, walnuts) reduce inflammation, support brain health, and balance cortisol.
  • B vitamins—especially B6, B12, and folate—support hormone metabolism and mood regulation. Found in leafy greens, eggs, poultry, beef, legumes. Women with certain genetic variations may need active forms such as methylfolate.
  • Spices and herbs (turmeric, cinnamon, ginger, rosemary, basil) contain antioxidants and compounds that support hormone balance and lower inflammation.
  • Fermented foods (sauerkraut, kimchi, kefir, unsweetened yogurt) nourish healthy gut bacteria, which help metabolize estrogen and keep your terrain balanced.

When you focus on nourishing your body this way, you’re not just “eating healthy”—you’re giving your hormones the raw materials they need to work in harmony.

A Note on Fasting

Fasting is one of the tools I often use in my practice because it can be incredibly effective for hormone and metabolic health when done correctly. Not eating for certain periods of time is just as important as eating appropriately — it gives your body a chance to reset, burn stored fuel, and allow repair processes to take place that simply can’t happen when you’re constantly digesting food.

For most women, I recommend starting with a minimum of 12 hours between dinner and breakfast. For example, if you finish eating at 7:00 p.m., you wouldn’t eat again until 7:00 a.m. This gentle overnight fast supports blood sugar stability, promotes fat metabolism, and can improve both sleep and energy. From there, fasting windows can be adjusted based on individual needs and goals.

That said, fasting is not right for everyone—especially women over 40. Some experience improved blood sugar and metabolism, while others notice increased fatigue, mood swings, or disrupted sleep. Research in the Proceedings of the Nutrition Society (Antoni et al., 2018) shows postmenopausal women may respond differently to fasting due to shifts in estrogen, progesterone, and cortisol.

That’s why, in my terrain-based approach, fasting is always personalized—taking into account your genetics, current metabolic state, stress levels, and overall health. It’s never about forcing your body, but about finding a rhythm that supports both hormone balance and metabolic resilience.

3 Gentle First Steps for Hormone Balance

You don’t need an extreme plan to start feeling better. Begin here:

  • Reset your daily rhythm – Go to bed and wake up at consistent times, hydrate first thing in the morning, and move gently before eating.
  • Support detox pathways – Eat cruciferous vegetables daily, drink warm lemon water in the morning, and include fiber-rich foods like chia or leafy greens.
  • Honor your genetics – Learn more about your body through a genetic test so you can make decisions based on YOUR terrain

To help you get started, I created a checklist to spot early imbalances and track your progress. Once you have an idea of where you might need more support, you can then speak with your practitioner about getting more personalized support.

Download the Hormone Balance Checklist Now

Ready to Reset from the Inside Out?

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start rebuilding your health with intention, I’d love to help. The Visconti Method is designed to help women in midlife reset hormones, restore metabolism, and reclaim vitality—without pushing your body into burnout.

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References:

  • Antoni, R., Johnston, K. L., Collins, A. L., & Robertson, M. D. (2018). Effects of intermittent fasting on glucose and lipid metabolism. Proceedings of the Nutrition Society, 77(3), 303–313.
  • Farooqi, I. S., & O’Rahilly, S. (2023). Leptin and the control of metabolism: lessons from rare genetic syndromes. Frontiers in Endocrinology, 14, 1184223.